Hey guys! Planning your Carrollton GA wedding includes a lot of details. It may feel from time to time (ok, 90% of the time, maybe) as though you are left out of the picture when it comes to planning the big day, but remember you are getting married too! Although it may not bother you that your fiancée and mother-in-law to-be seem to have taken the reins and run off with the horse, there are several very important jobs you can do to make your wedding day in Georgia a memorable one for both of you!
Your bride-to-be has been picturing her wedding day since she was old enough to play dress-up, from her wedding gown to the type of reception she wants to have, so be sensitive to her need to make it the most wonderful day possible. This is a busy time - she will appreciate your interest in tulip colors and place settings, and even if you just end up nodding your head in the end, give her some honest feedback about what you think.
Major decisions, such as the budget for your Carrollton wedding, the guest list, and religious matters should be ones that you decide together, so don’t be afraid to let her know how you feel. Here are some groom specific tasks to help you get started if you don’t know where to begin:
- Choose your groomsmen.
- Arrange any needed transportation to and from the ceremony site, to the airport, etc.
- Help out-of-town guests with arranging their Carrollton hotel accommodations.
- Purchase a small gift (a token) for your groomsmen to show your appreciation.
- Get yourself and the groomsmen measured for tuxedos early and keep checking with the store to ensure they will be in on time.
- Remind your bride-to-be that you are available to run any needed errands.
- Obtain a marriage license.
- Choose a restaurant in Carrollton and plan the rehearsal dinner.
- Prepare your vows and your speech for the wedding reception (if you are going to give one).
If you can handle these tasks and leave the floral arranging to your fiancée (not that you can’t mention that you like the yellow roses), you will find she will be much less stressed and you will feel involved and included.
During the wedding planning process, sometimes it will feel as though there is a lot expected from you and at other times you will feel invisible. Just remember, this hectic step is just one on your way to spending the rest of your lives together. Enjoy a romantic wedding day in Georgia!